Most people naturally associate January with new beginnings because it’s the first month of the year. For this reason, many choose to begin afresh in January with hopes of turning their life around as the year unfolds. Perhaps this is why many marriages hanging on a thread end in January.
Spouses who have been contemplating divorce may make a final decision in January as a way to turn over a new leaf. Many people may not be aware that January is commonly known as divorce month because so many spouses file for divorce at the beginning of a new year. Exploring the reasons behind this phenomenon may provide invaluable insight for spouses contemplating divorce.
The post-holiday reality check
One reason for the spike in divorce in January is the emotional, financial and psychological culmination of the holiday season. For many families, the festive season is a time for togetherness, celebration and family bonding.
Unfortunately, the holiday season may also magnify existing marital issues. Couples who were already experiencing tension may experience added pressures during the holidays due to financial stress, family obligations and unrealistic expectations.
The cumulation of these struggles may bring unresolved conflicts to the forefront. And yet, many couples would rather not disrupt the holiday season with discussions of separation. Instead, many couples choose to endure and keep the peace for the sake of their families. Once the celebrations conclude, the reality of their situation may become harder to ignore. January may provide the first practical opportunity to address their issues.
New Year’s resolutions and fresh starts
The start of a new year often inspires people to evaluate their lives and set goals for improvement. For some, this reflection leads to the realization that their marriage is no longer fulfilling or aligned with their vision for the future. This might mean seeking a divorce to pave the way for personal growth and emotional well-being.
Financial considerations
Divorce is a significant financial decision and January may offer strategic financial timing for those contemplating it. Many couples may wait to file for divorce until after the holiday season to avoid additional expenses or disruptions. Filing for divorce early in the year may help provide clarity for budgeting for the year ahead.
Contemplating divorce can be overwhelming for spouses who are thinking of turning over a new leaf in January. However, they may be able to take the logistical burden of divorce off their backs by seeking legal support.